The Do’s and Don’ts of Cyberflirting
Cyberflirting with someone can either lead to nothingness or something deeper. This is why when it comes to cyberflirting, it is also important that we consider the do’s and the don’ts of flirting with someone in online.
DO’s:
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Be Sensitive. Yes, it’s just cyberflirting but remember, even though you might not be seeing the other person personally, being a beyotch in an dating website won’t take you anywhere.
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Think before you type. Before you say anything else, think about it first. You may not want to mislead the other person in cyberflirting, right (especially if you are interested with the other person)?
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Keep it Simple, Brief and Catchy. When cyberflirting, make sure that whatever you enter into the conversation is straight to the point and simple. Avoid using complicated words and phrases as much as possible so you and the person you are flirting with will better understand each other.
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Always be honest and true to yourself. There is nothing better than cyberflirting AND be who you really are at the same time. Pretending someone you are not isn’t the most brilliant idea so stay true and just be YOU.
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Have Fun. Cyberflirting is fun and exciting. Think that flirting online wouldn’t guarantee you love so don’t take it too seriously. Just be nice, be you, and get to know as many people as you can. Remember, when you are having fun, you will gain more friends, and all the more, love.
DON’Ts:
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USE CAPITAL LETTERS ALL THE TIME. In the cyberworld, using capital letters is an emphasis of something, i.e. shouting or yelling. Also, be careful when using Emoticons because they are sometimes misleading. Send a smiley in cyberflirting only when you mean it.
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Send vague messages, acronyms and phrases. When cyberflirting, be sure that whatever you say means something; avoid sending messages that you will later regret. In addition to this, avoid using complex online acronyms that hasn’t been accessed by the natural world.
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Go for something that isn’t actually ok with you. If you don’t feel like doing something when cyberflirting, tell it to the other person in a nice way. Say it to him/her in a way that wouldn’t offend her and make sure that your reason is valid.
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Pretend someone you are not. Do this and people would think you are just one of those scammers and bots online. Just be who you are when cyberflirting and you will surely get to know more people than you expect.
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Disrespect. Being rude and harsh is the worst thing one could ever do online. Just like in real life, you must also learn to respect others’ decision when you are cyberflirting. If the other person says NO, then just respect his or her decision. Don’t be rude to someone especially if you don’t really know him/her in real life.
A person falls in love with his/her partner not (only) because of the physical appearance, but most of all because of the (agreeable) attitude of that person. Cyberflirting is fun and enjoying but all of us must know that to be able to find what we are looking for, we must not separate ourselves with who we really are.
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